Hi, I’m 26y.o.
I’ve just joined this forum cos I’m in trouble and I can’t hold it. It’s very heartbreaking, disappointment.
My questions are: Am I wrong or not? What should I or we do?
Case: I’ve got a gf and my dad doesn’t really like her. They both haven’t known each other.
One day I brought her to my sister’s engagement, but before I brought her, I asked my dad that I wanted to bring her with me but he didn’t allow it, so I asked my sister and she said yes I can bring my gf with me.
When on that event, my dad saw her, my gf gave greetings to him but he was like no expression, and then she’s sad & afraid and I was like angry & sad but I keep it inside.
One day I asked my dad and he said that when he sees her he thinks that she’s not good for me cos she’s skinny (not too skinny for me) so she’s weak, she hasn’t graduated while she’s above 23y.o., she hasn’t got a job, he thinks that she will have hard times to get a job bcos of her age.
To me & lots of people think that it’s doesnt matter, at least our partner(woman) loves us truly & willing to help us trough ups & downs.
Whenever I wanna go hangout with her, my dad always like an evil conceded, like he really hates her, he is so angry about me & her to be together. He told me that if I wanna marry that girl he’s not going to agree, he’ll not accept her & he’s not going to help me in finance.
*Oh I think I remember that he ever told me to move out from his house if I’m still with her or wanna be with her forever! I said ok then, better to walk out than to stay in this house cos I don’t feel joy, peaceful & happiness. And I said why always angry & upset about it? You go to church, read the Bible in there, listen to the Father’s word, singing songs. There’s nothing to worry about, nothing to angry!
Love is not wrong, right? Jesus gave me her for a reason, right? That’s why I’ve been fighting it no matter what and I’ll fight it with Him together. We both now focus on prayers, we pray for him.